Our love story started on Halloween. At least it did for me.
It Started With An App
In 2014, on Halloween night, my friend Jessie came over. Halloween isn’t really an important holiday to me and Jessie’s husband was deployed so we made plans to watch movies, eat pizza and eat candy.
Now I don’t know why but Jessie made the suggestion (and then wouldn’t let it go) that I should be on a dating app. I definitely fought her on it but if you knew Jessie you would know that it was a losing battle. She’s stubborn but also cares a lot. I finally said yes to her creating my profile as long as I had complete veto rights.
The profile was created and I didn’t really think much about it. I had done the dating websites and apps before with no success and I wasn’t expecting anything to happen this time.
I wasn’t pursing being in a relationship. I had surrendered that desire to be in a relationship to God. I was trusting God to bring the right man into my life. I said yes to the dating app so Jessie would stop pestering me.
The Prequel
As I said, in my mind Chaz and mine’s love story started on Halloween. But the prequel started a few weeks earlier.
I first saw Chaz at church. Our church wasn’t that big so it was easy to notice new faces. I remember asking my friend Amanda if she knew who he was. Chaz was there with his sister who was a member of the church.
I noticed him. I thought he was attractive. And I didn’t go up to talk to him.
Nerves got the better of me. Plus I was preoccupied with my parents getting ready to move out of the country.
The Notification
A couple days after setting up my dating profile I got a notification that someone looked at my profile… it was Chaz! And instantly I began wondering if he recognized me. I said that our church wasn’t that big but I also I sang on the worship team. I was pretty visible.
I went back and forth but I finally sent Chaz a message. ‘Hey.’ That was it. I’m still made at myself for sending just the word ‘hey.’ I hated when I would get messages like that. So I sent the message and waited for Chaz’s reply.
‘Hey.’ Are you kidding me?! I realized that if I wanted to see if this could be anything I was going to have to be bold. So I typed out a real message and clicked send. And then we started having real conversations. It was the beginning.
God Answered My Prayer
When I surrendered my desire to be in a relationship and I put my trust in God, I told God that he would need to bring a guy to church. God answered my request. Not exactly in the way that I thought but it makes me love Chaz and mine’s love story even more.
In Honor Of The Beginning
So today, Halloween 2021, I’m choosing to celebrate and honor the beginning of our story with a movie, pizza and candy.